Right, so here’s the scenario: Two of your friends were going out/casually screwing/whatever! The point is, they were involved romantically… or not so romantically, as it turns out. Anyway, they’ve now broken up and one of them is coming on to you. Ew… except, you’re interested. Then comes the obvious question: How long should you wait before you can hook up with them, without becoming become public enemy number one that is???
A Day
Prepare yourself for a whole lot of hatred coming your way! Also, if you’re willing to get with your friend’s ex after only one day, what kind of friendship did you have in the first place? Besides, how much do you really like the guy/girl in question? Are they worth the aggravation and possibility of losing your friend? Serious thoughts for consideration before you take your pants off!
A Week
Very early days my friend!! You’re still in dangerous territory, as it’s extremely unlikely your friend is over the dissolution of their relationship. Watching you hook up with their ex at this point would be… well, let’s just say not fun! Even if the ex is texting you all day, sending you cute snapchats and telling you how perfect you would be together… I repeat: DON’T DO IT!!!
A Month
Ok, depending on the situation, you may be heading into safer territory here. If the couple in question were only casually sleeping together for a few months, it MAY be ok to go out with the ex. However, if they were an official couple for the past five years, it should be back to the waiting game for you!
> Three Months
Right, if you’re really considering hooking up with your mate’s ex, this is probably a reasonable amount of time to wait. I mean, when is it ever a good time? Of course, everything depends on the details of each specific case. How long you have been friends? How serious was their relationship? How much awkwardness are you willing to put up with? Most importantly, how much do you really like your friend’s ex?
If you think there’s a possibility of something great happening between you guys, go for it… just try not to hurt anyone (too much) in the process!!!
So guys what do u think?
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